Sarah Answers, Part Four of Many

Round four...

Natalie asked, "Do you trust people?"

That's a big fault of mine. I'm not very trusting (read: at all). Combined with my fierce sense of independence and it appears that I don't have a big need for other people. I've had several guys walk out the door and call over their shoulders, "I didn't feel needed."

It's a vicious cycle. I don't open up because I think he's going to leave. He leaves because I don't open up. The right man for me will be one that stays when I push.

Outside of relationships, the same applies. I think it's I'm afraid of judgment.

Two Drink Girl asked, "Why doesn't anybody get us the way we do?"

Crazy understands crazy. That's why we stick together! :)

Anonymous asked, "Does it feel any different to you with or without any protection?"

First off, I do not condone unprotected sex outside of a monogamous relationship in which there is another form of birth control used.

That being said, yes I can tell a difference. Especially with condoms that are ribbed or with little bumps "for a woman's pleasure." I'm not a big fan of the ribs or the bumps. Otherwise I can't tell a difference, except maybe emotionally.

Oh, after about 45 minutes to an hour condoms will, uh, dry me out. And that doesn't feel great either. I find that pausing to put a new one on will quickly remedy that.